The Mans Guide to Vibrators
This pretty rose of a butt plug (roses again — definitely trending) is great for anyone experimenting with anal play. It gives your partner a pretty view from behind, is soft and flexible to the touch, and has thoughtfully rounded corners that make for easier insertion. It also sets the mood with its light-up feature— the base glows with a different color every time you change one of the ten vibration settings. In addition to being one very cute little product, this rose vibrator feature a “sucking” sensation that aims to simulate cunnilingus.
And it achieved a higher score from our panel of testers this time round, so it’s clear the upgrade has paid off. Thanks to its warming effect, this toy left our panel feeling hot – in all the right ways. Able to heat up or cool down, from the inside out, it’s perfect for those who enjoy temperature play. If you’re using a vibrator for the first time, start by placing it on your clitoris with light pressure. It’s important to make sure that the lube is compatible with your toy. Some vibrators plug into the wall, while others are battery-operated.
It’s USB-rechargeable (because disposable batteries are trash, literally) and delivers strong, satisfying vibrations with multiple settings. “This one is affordable, compact, and offers three speeds and seven different vibration patterns so you can explore and learn how your body reacts to vibrations. It’s waterproof, battery-powered, and comes with replacement batteries,” says O’Reilly.
If you’ve ever masturbated or had sex, think about what really gets you going. “For anyone who enjoys backdoor play viberator, it’s hard to beat glass butt plugs,” Trip Richards, a sex educator and porn performer, says. The looped handle on this one makes it much easier to insert and remove, even with lubed fingers, and the plug itself is shaped perfectly to nestle into the prostate. The battery lasts for a long time, and it seems to charge pretty fast.
It wouldn’t qualify for a spot on this list without a powerful clit sucker, but this toy goes above and beyond. The flexible silicone shaft sends rumbly goodness to the G-spot (choose from 10 vibration settings) and it also has a licking tongue stimulator to mimic oral sex. The Tango X is an all-time favorite bullet, due to its multiple speeds and settings, super-powerful and rumbly vibrations, convenient finger grip, and surprisingly low noise output. For an under-$100 vibrator, We-Vibe’s feels like it’s packed with everything.
Kate Sloan is a writer specializing in sex and kink, who has reviewed hundreds of sex toys in over a decade on the sex beat. She is the author of the books 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do and 200 Words to Help You Talk About Sexuality & Gender, and cohosts the podcasts The Dildorks and Question Box. “This was the first grinding toy I tried and the one I’d recommend most for strap-on play,” Sparks says. This toy slips over the base of a dildo to provide a little extra padding and stimulation for the person wearing the harness during strap-on sex.
It sits somewhere between a bullet vibrator and a standard-sized vibrator, making it discreet and easy to carry. “Vibrators can be great as they can add extra stimulation to wherever feels good for you, whether it’s the clitoris, in the vagina, or other erogenous zones,” Dr. Lincoln explains. “The ability to take your orgasms into your own hands (and that of your vibrator) is a fantastic way to take charge of your sex life and your pleasure.”
The Nora gives you the ability to independently control both the arm and the head, which rotates to better hit your G-spot. While the manufacturers boast about the low sound levels, several customer reviews disagree, finding the Melt loud. This can be fun , too, but this comes down to your personal preference. From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing.
If you like vibing and rubbing, this one is ideal for external play,” says O’Reilly. “They enable you to experience textures and sensations you wouldn’t be able to with something shaped like a penis,” says Wright. Plus, they put penetration on the table for those who either aren’t turned on by penis-shaped parts or have a history of trauma, she adds. Check out more of our Tried and Tested sex toys, including the best rabbit vibrators, the best clitoral suction toys, and the best vibrators for couples. Feel extra connected to your partner with this unique toy from Ricky’s, which can be controlled by them (or you) for the ultimate hands-free experience. The wireless remote can be used to flit through nine different modes, with up to an hour of battery life.